Just got to say people criticising Spike's assault of Buffy in Seeing Red are missing a couple things 1) it is meant to horrible- sexualising assault IS horrible and 2ndly to.me Joss Whedon dropped the ball here - I know Spike was desperate but based on how he had worked with Buffy for good had good feelings even when soulless he protected Dawn I just don't believe that he would ever have done this to Buffy- that's why it's a bad episode !