It's clear you are self centered. Gerry is a great man. Your probably not his age, so how can you even relate? She was pretty needy. I don't blame him for getting cold feet. But it's not ok to put him down like this, all your doing is scaring other seniors away from applying. Why would anyone want to go through finding love, losing love then having horrible articles like this wrote about them. What a legacy. Not! I don't blame any genuine person to never apply now. Your insensitive, rude opinion of this man is so off and yet others will read this and there perception of Gerry is now tainted . He doesn't descend a legacy like that. He is literally on his last chapter in life. This article is so disrespectful and I hope you change these words. Karma is real. that! Cheers