Demi Engemann may star in Secret Lives season 1 introduced viewers to the group’s progressive take on the Mormon religion. Demi, 30, and Bret, 46, stood out among the cast for their 16-year age gap. The two first met through family friends when Demi was just 9 and Bret was 25.
Although Bret only briefly appeared in The Secret Lives Of Mormon Wives season 1, his role increased in season 2 when both he and Demi faced allegations of cheating. Demi had to defend herself amid accusations of inappropriate the running for season 2’s villain and threatened to permanently sever her bonds with some of her castmates.
Bret Is A Former Football Player
He Played In The NFL
Bret began his career as a football player, with experience in both the collegiate and professional realms. According to People, Bret was the quarterback for Brigham Young University, a Mormon university in Utah. He was a member of the team for four years.
Following his time at BYU, Bret went on to play in the NFL. He was a free agent for the Oakland Raiders from 2003 to 2005. After ending his football career, Bret shifted his career focus to business. He's currently a Managing Partner for a consulting group, a role he began in 2022.
Bret Was Previously Married To RHOSLC Star Angie Harrington
The Former Couple Shares Two Sons
Prior to marrying Demi, Bret was married to another reality star.
His first wife was Real Housewives Of Salt Lake City cast member Angie Harrington.
Angie made guest appearances on RHOSLC seasons 1 and 2 before becoming a friend of the housewives in season 3.
People reports that Angie and Bret met when they were in college. During their marriage they welcomed two sons, Cole and Rome. Surprisingly, Bret’s relationship with Angie isn’t Demi’s only connection to RHOSLC. She told Decider that she interviewed to the show herself due to her personal connections with several cast .
Bret Was Originally Cast In The Bachelorette Season 16
He Withdrew After Reconnecting With Demi
Before his appearance on The Secret Lives Of Mormon Wives, Bret had his own brush with reality television. As his second marriage was ending, he befriended Demi’s first husband, Blake Corbin. Demi and Blake suggested Bret The Bachelorette, and they even submitted his application.
Bret was selected as a contestant on The Bachelorette season 16, which featured Clare Crawley as the lead. However, filming was halted in March 2020 due to the COVID pandemic. During that time, Bret and Demi struck up a romance, so he never returned when filming resumed.
Bret And Demi Have Been Married Since 2021
They Had A Whirlwind Engagement
Although their paths to finding each other were not always straightforward, the end of Demi’s first marriage opened the door for Bret to reenter her life. She leaned on him for , but the two declined to take their romance to the next level until her divorce was finalized. The origins of their relationship have been the source of rampant speculation due to the timing of Demi’s divorce as well as Bret’s involvement with The Bachelorette.
Demi and Bret embraced their unconventional journey and became engaged in March 2021, just months into their relationship. Due to restrictions from the COVID pandemic, they married only four days later on April 3, 2021. The couple formed a blended family with Bret’s two sons and Demi’s daughter, Maude, from her first marriage.
Demi’s candid attitude has found her at the center of controversy on The Secret Lives Of Mormon Wives, and her marriage is no exception. Although she and Bret continue to face rumors about their fidelity, they’re used to people talking about their relationship. With Bret and Demi’s connections to several other reality shows, it was only a matter of time before they landed on the small screen, and they seem ready to take any heat that comes their way.
Sources: People, Decider, Bret Engemann/Instagram

A scandalous group of Mormon mom influencers, known as #MomTok, faces the fallout of their controversial "soft swinging" lifestyle that rocked the internet in 2022. As their friendships and reputations are put to the test, the docies explores the intense drama, broken trust, and the public’s reaction to their choices.
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