This article contains spoilers for XO, Kitty season 2.
XO, Kitty season 1 ended just before winter break, with many complex arc developments, including Min-ho confessing his feelings for Kitty, while she discovers a mysterious Simon, and her grappling with her feelings for Yuri. The show's second season explores these avenues, from Kitty's lingering feelings for Yuri and Min-ho to her reuniting her estranged family.
XO, Kitty season 2 also features new and returning characters, spicing up the dynamics and storylines. One of the most important arcs in XO, Kitty season 2 involves Kitty and Yuri's evolving relationship. Kitty and Yuri kiss — leading to the latter and Juliana breaking up. These narrative choices exist to draw Kitty and Min-ho closer. It ultimately illustrates XO, Kitty handles all the lesbian characters and sapphic romances poorly, reflecting on Netflix's serious issue of mistreating lesbian and other sapphic representation.
XO, Kitty Season 2's Lesbian Representation Was Problematic
XO, Kitty Season 2 Sidelines Several Lesbian Characters While Vilifying Yuri
While XO, Kitty will undo a major romance twist in season 3 to allow Kitty and Yuri to get together, but this is not strong enough to defeat the parallel between them and their mothers, Eve and Jina. Eve and Jina were best friends when they attended KISS, but they lost touch. Kitty and Yuri become friends, like them. That said, every time they encounter a problem, they come out of it stronger than ever.
For now, it seems like Kitty and Yuri would remain platonic. However, that does not mean the show cannot pursue a potential romance, especially if it helps Kitty understand her sexuality. Unfortunately, XO, Kitty pursues the worst route to explore their romance by creating drama for Yuri and Juliana's relationship. Instead of focusing on her bisexuality, the narrative uses Kitty and Yuri's potential romance to break up Julianna's relationship. As a result, Kitty and Yuri drift apart for a while, leaving her with no one to her in finding her long-lost family except for Min-ho.
Min-ho and Kitty grow closer during Kitty's expedition to solve the Song Covey family rift in XO, Kitty. This allows Kitty to see Min-ho in a new light and develop feelings for him. This narrative decision does not center on Kitty's journey with her sexuality, however. Instead, it seems as if Yuri and Juliana break up just for Min-ho and Kitty to get together. Lesbian relationships stand on their own, and if they exist to prop up a romance between a man and a woman, then it is poor representation.
...Kitty being unable to hide her feelings and allow Yuri and Juliana to be happy.
The narrative also villainizes Yuri, painting her out to be the big bad of the season. This is despite Kitty being unable to hide her feelings and allow Yuri and Juliana to be happy. Kitty invites Praveena to Min-ho's ski weekend, only to kiss Yuri right before leaving. The narrative punishes Yuri for this action, but only she deals with the consequences of it. Kitty is not a bad person; she is human and makes mistakes. Sadly, Yuri is not allowed the same grace, holding lesbian characters to higher standards. Furthermore, XO, Kitty portrays Yuri and Kitty cheating together, which is a harmful stereotype for bisexual people.
Slip off my pretty dress down my chest when I think of you
Every night, both lips on the mirror
It's ritualistic, counting lipstick stains where you should be
Am I in the frame from your point of view?
Do you feel the same? I'm too scared to say
Half of the things I do when I picture you
- Lyrics from Chappell Roan's "Picture You" that suggest the song is about two girls
Finally, one of the songs on XO, Kitty's season 2 soundtrack is "Picture You" by Chappell Roan—a song about a lost love between two girls. Unfortunately, XO, Kitty implements "Picture You" during a moment between Min-ho and Kitty. XO, Kitty season 2 has many opportunities to use this ballad for any lesbian relationships but fails to do so. After the way XO, Kitty treats Kitty and Yuri's relationship and disregards Juliana and Praveena, it is insulting to use this Chappell Roan song for Kitty and Min-ho.
XO, Kitty's Lesbian Representation Highlights A Bigger Problem With Netflix
Netflix Has A Notorious History Of Mistreating Lesbian Representation
Unfortunately, given that XO, Kitty is a Netflix notably canceled First Kill, which premiered around the same time as Heartstopper —a show that Netflix renewed for two seasons. However, when they both debuted, First Kill had a significantly higher viewership numbers. According to Forbes, First Kill had 97.6 million viewing hours, while it was Netflix's top 10, compared to Heartstopper, which only had 53.4 million viewing hours.
Canceled LGBTQIA+ Shows On Streaming Since 2020 That Feature Sapphic Main Characters |
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Show |
Network |
Run Dates |
Cancelation Date |
The Baby-Sitters Club |
Netflix |
July 30, 2020 – October 11, 2021 |
March 11, 2022 |
Control Z |
Netflix |
May 22, 2020 – July 6, 2022 |
April 28, 2022 |
Unstoppable |
Netflix |
February 28, 2020 |
Unknown |
Diary of a Future President |
Disney+ |
January 17, 2020 – August 18, 2021 |
December 13, 2021 |
Gentefied |
Netflix |
February 21, 2020 – November 19, 2021 |
January 13, 2022 |
Get Even |
BBC iPlayer/Netflix |
February 14, 2020 |
N/A (Unofficial Cancelation) |
Hunters |
Amazon Prime Video |
February 21, 2020 – January 13, 2023 |
November 15, 2022 |
I Am Not Okay With This |
Netflix |
February 26, 2020 |
August 21, 2020 |
Luna Nera |
Netflix |
January 31, 2020 |
N/A (Unofficial Cancelation) |
Ratched |
Netflix |
September 18, 2020 |
February 4, 2024 |
Stark Trek: Picard |
CBS All Access (Now Paramount+) |
March 3, 2022 – April 20, 2023 |
February 19, 2023 |
Teenage Bounty Hunters |
Netflix |
August 14, 2020 |
October 5, 2020 |
Utopia Falls |
Hulu |
February 14, 2020 |
N/A (Unofficial Cancelation) |
Warrior Nun |
Netflix |
July 2, 2020 – November 10, 2022 |
December 13, 2022 |
White Lines |
Netflix |
May 15, 2020 |
August 16, 2020 |
The Wilds |
Amazon Prime Video |
December 11, 2020 – May 6, 2022 |
July 28, 2022 |
Cowboy Bebop |
Netflix |
November 19, 2021 |
December 9, 2021 |
Fate: The Winx Saga |
Netflix |
22 January 2021 – 16 September 2022 |
November 1, 2022 |
Generation |
HBO Max (Now MAX) |
March 11, 2021 – July 8, 2021 |
September 14, 2021 |
Gossip Girl |
HBO Max (Now MAX) |
July 8, 2021 – January 26, 2023 |
January 19, 2023 |
I Know What You Did Last Summer |
Amazon Prime Video |
October 15, 2021 – November 12, 2021 |
January 7, 2022 |
iCarly |
Paramount+ |
June 17, 2021 – July 27, 2023 |
October 4, 2023 |
Loki |
Disney+ |
June 9, 2021 – November 9, 2023 |
N/A (Unofficial Cancelation) |
One Of Us Is Lying |
Peacock |
October 7, 2021 – October 20, 2022 |
January 20, 2023 |
Sky Rojo |
Netflix |
March 19, 2021 – January 13, 2023 |
November 14, 2022 |
Young Royals |
Netflix |
July 1, 2021 – March 18, 2024 |
November 28, 2022 |
Alma / The Girl in the Mirror |
Netflix |
August 19, 2022 |
N/A (Unofficial Cancelation) |
First Kill |
Netflix |
June 10, 2022 |
August 2, 2022 |
How I Met Your Father |
Hulu |
January 18, 2022 – July 11, 2023 |
September 2, 2023 |
Outer Range |
Amazon Prime Video |
April 15, 2022 – May 16, 2024 |
July 3, 2024 |
Paper Girls |
Amazon Prime Video |
July 29, 2022 |
September 9, 2022 |
Rebelde |
Netflix |
January 5, 2022 – July 27, 2022 |
May 6, 2023 |
She-Hulk: Attorney at Law |
Disney+ |
August 18, 2022 – October 13, 2022 |
N/A (Unofficial Cancelation) |
Welcome to Eden |
Netflix |
May 6, 2022 – April 21, 2023 |
July 7, 2023 |
Willow |
Disney+ |
November 30, 2022 – January 11, 2023 |
March 15, 2023 |
Black Cake |
Hulu |
November 1, 2023 – December 1, 2023 |
September 27, 2024 |
The Acolyte |
Disney+ |
June 4, 2024 – July 16, 2024 |
August 19, 2024 |
Dead Boy Detectives |
Netflix |
April 25, 2024 |
August 30, 2024 |
While it also features incredible LGBTQIA+ representation, Heartstopper primarily focuses on the primary romance between Nick and Charlie, who are bisexual and gay, respectively. Furthermore, the representation among the secondary characters—including two lesbian characters, Tara and Darcy—often prop up Nick and Charlie's romance. Other lesbian and sapphic shows Netflix has canceled include One Day at a Time, Warrior Nun, I Am Not Okay With This, Fate: The Winx Saga, Sense8, and GLOW.
As seen in the table above, Netflix is also not the only network to cancel shows with excellent lesbian and sapphic representation. Amazon Prime Video canceled The Wilds and Paper Girls and Disney+ pulled the plug on She-Hulk: Attorney at Law. There is a big problem with lesbian representation on streaming, with a particular emphasis on Netflix.
Netflix Must Take Action To Fix Its Lesbophobia Problem
There Are Several Steps Netflix Can Take To Improve Their Lesbian Representation
Netflix has a problem with how the network treats lesbian and sapphic representation, but there is a lot they can do to fix the issue. In of cancellations, a lot of the shows Netflix cancels barely receive any promotion or marketing. Netflix prides itself on the LGBTQIA+ representation they provide, but the community is much bigger than gay men and relationships. Netflix must truly allow sapphic shows and lesbian relationships to stay on the air by promoting them as much as possible and allocating enough time to give the shows a chance to thrive.
As for writing lesbian and sapphic representation, writers should consult LGBTQIA+ women when writing these storylines to maintain authenticity and to ensure that the representation stands on its own and does not exist for heterosexual dynamics.
Despite this, Netflix has bright hope for its future. A future season of Bridgerton will feature Michaela Stirling in sca's story, illustrating the two women falling in love. Other shows such as Heartbreak High will return for future seasons, while the streamer could also provide more emphasis on Tara and Darcy in Heartstopper. As for writing lesbian and sapphic representation, writers should consult LGBTQIA+ women when writing these storylines to maintain authenticity and to ensure that the representation stands on its own and does not exist for heterosexual dynamics.
How XO, Kitty Season 3 Can Improve Its Lesbian Representation
Yuri, Juliana, & Praveena Should Have Their Own Independent Storylines Outside Of Kitty & Min Ho's Romance
The lesbian and sapphic representation is not lost in XO, Kitty, either. If Netflix renews XO, Kitty for season 3, then there are several aspects the show must fix to ensure the lesbian representation is excellent going forward. First and foremost, lesbian characters should have their own storylines without advancing romance between men and women. Yuri and Juliana are both main characters, and the story is just as much theirs as Kitty's. If XO, Kitty has no plans for Yuri and Juliana to get back together, then the show should also focus on Juliana and Praveena's newfound relationship.

Netflix Just Gave Everyone The Perfect Reminder To Rewatch Its 96% RT Romantic Comedy From 7 Years Ago With 2 Sequels
With the release of XO, Kitty season 2, Netflix gave everyone the perfect reminder to watch a 7-year-old rom-com film with an impressive 96% RT score.
Yuri should find romantic happiness, no matter who it is with. It is also important that XO, Kitty does not implement cheating for bisexual characters again. Finally, while it is highly likely that Kitty and Min-ho will end up together, it should not forget that Kitty is bisexual, which does not change no matter who she dates. Kitty's sexuality is for herself and not for romantic drama.
Source: Forbes

XO, Kitty is a comedy-drama series from the creator of To All The Boys I Loved Before, Jenny Han. Teen matchmaker Kitty Song Covey thinks she knows everything there is to know about love. But when she moves halfway across the world to reunite with her long-distance boyfriend, she'll soon realize that relationships are much more complicated when it’s your heart on the line.
- Writers
- Jenny Han
- Franchise(s)
- To All the Boys
- Seasons
- 2
- Streaming Service(s)
- Netflix
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